Q. Many present-day follows of Jesus, including myself, believe that God is with us once we invite Him into our hearts. That said, I wonder at times how much He is directly involved in our day-to-day lives. Does He plan my every move if I invite that? The thought that God can be in complete “control” of our lives as we “tune out” seems to be a modern concept developed over the last hundred years. A verse often quoted to support His complete direction in our lives is “‘I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'” But it seems to me if we just rely on this as our basis for this argument we may have applied its message too literally. The passage was written to the exiles but it is often quoted out of context as if it applied to every one of us today. I am thankful God gave us His word, the Bible, the Holy Spirit, and a thinking brain. Would love your thoughts.
I haven’t actually encountered myself the teaching that we can and should “tune out” ourselves and allow God to control our day-to-day lives directly, but let me share some thoughts about this teaching as you describe it.
First, I agree with you that that often-quoted statement from Jeremiah’s letter to the exiles does not really support such an approach. In context, that statement actually means something like this: “You might not think that I have good plans for you based on your present circumstances, but long-term, big-picture, I really do.” The Judeans of Jeremiah’s time thought that those who had been carried off to Babylon were lost from the community and doomed to a dismal future, while those who remained in Judea had excellent prospects. Jeremiah wrote his letter to the exiles to assure them that just the opposite was true: that they had a “hope and a future” as remnant that would eventually restore the nation, while those left in Judea were doomed to destruction.
So this statement can appropriately be cited to people today who are in difficult and troubling circumstances, to assure them that long-term, big-picture, God will work things out for His glory in their lives. But it should not be quoted to support the idea that “God knows the plans He has for us” if we will just “let go” and let Him run every detail of our lives.
I wonder how that would actually work, in fact. How are we supposed to know where to go and what to do to fulfill these “plans” of God? Are we supposed to be simply passive and trust that anything that happens to us reflects God’s plans?
I’m much more inclined to agree with you that “God gave us His word, the Holy Spirit, and a thinking brain,” and God expects us to develop wisdom and mature character so that we can make good decisions that reflect His values and purposes–not try to chase down His supposed “plans” for the tiniest details of our lives.
I talk about this more in my post entitled, “Should I be looking for ‘God’s will for my life’ in every decision?” There I encourage us to pursue an approach of “co-operation” with God, which I believe Jesus modeled for us, and which I describe this way: “Within the context of his overall life mission as he understood it, Jesus discerned where God was already at work and considered how he could join in.” As I see it, this honors God, as we take responsibility for using the gifts and opportunities God has given us, guided by our sanctified sense of His own working in and around us.
I hope this is helpful!