Q. Why did Jesus tell Mary not to hug him after his resurrection because he hadn’t yet returned to the Father? Why would Jesus object to Mary clinging to him … that is really puzzling. You would think he would have reciprocated with a bear hug for about an hour, if only for her sake. What’s the connection between the return to the Father and not clinging to him?
This is indeed a puzzling matter, and interpreters have offered many different explanations for it. Personally I like the way that Raymond Brown explains it in his commentary on the Gospel of John.
Brown suggests, first of all, that when Jesus tells Mary, “Do not hold on to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father,” we should not think he is speaking of the ascension that Luke describes as taking place forty days after the resurrection. Brown feels that that particular event, in which Jesus was seen ascending on the clouds into heaven, was intended to indicate evocatively that the post-resurrection appearances of Jesus had come to an end. Brown believes that Jesus also went to be with the Father in less visible ways in between his appearances to the disciples. The first of those times would have been right after the resurrection, and Mary would have seen him, in effect, on his way there.
As Brown understands it, this timing is actually crucial to the point John is making. At the Last Supper, Jesus had said, “I will come back to you. In a little while the world will see me no longer, but you will see me.” Brown says that when Mary sees Jesus, “she thinks that he has returned as he promised and now he will stay with her and his other followers, resuming former relationships.” Jesus had also said, “I will see you again and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you.” Brown says that Mary is “trying to hold on to the source of her joy, since she mistakes an appearance of the risen Jesus for his permanent presence with his disciples.” But instead, by “telling her not to hold on to him, Jesus indicates that his permanent presence is not by way of appearances but by way of the gift of the Spirit that can only come after he has ascended to the Father.” (Jesus had also told his followers at the Last Supper, “It is to your advantage that I go away, for if I do not go away, the Counselor will not come to you; but if I go, I will send him to you.”)
So Jesus is basically saying to Mary, “I’m not on my way back from the Father” (this is not what my continuing presence with you will be like), “I’m on my way to the Father” (so that I can send the Spirit, who will be my continuing presence with you). So this would be yet another place in the Gospel of John where a person mistakes a physical reality for a spiritual one and Jesus needs to explain otherwise (as in the case of Nicodemus misunderstanding what it means to be “born again,” for example, or the woman at the well misunderstanding what Jesus meant by “living water,” and so forth).
Brown argues convincingly that the present imperative used here means “don’t cling to me” or “don’t hold on to me” rather than “don’t touch me.” So this isn’t an issue of what Jesus’ post-resurrection, pre-ascension body was like and how it could or couldn’t interact with earthly bodies. Rather, the issue is that Jesus’ followers are not to “cling to” him as they knew him on this earth, but rather experience his continuing presence through the Spirit he has sent from the Father.
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Thank you again Chris. When John explains this is he saying after Jesus resurrection that he was only visible to the the 11 disciples during is 40 days on earth? I never stopped to think about that.
No, I think that when Jesus made his resurrection appearances, he was visible to anyone who was present. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians, for example, that one one occasion, Jesus “appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time.” The point Jesus was making to Mary was that she shouldn’t understand his visible appearance after the resurrection to be his ongoing presence with his followers; rather, that would be through the Holy Spirit.
The gospel message that is being given here is enlightening and spiritual to effect the whole body to be a much better Christian .
I heard an explanation in church many years back that makes very good sense to me. A question is when did Jesus offer up his blood in Heaven for our sins. The thought was that as in the old testament cleansing and purification rites, Jesus could not be touched until he offered his blood on the heavenly alter and therefore could not allow anyone touch him and thus make the offering unclean. The whole scripture is: Touch me not; for I am not yet ascended to my Father. I dont know why everyone leaves the second part of that out. Once he had ascended and made the offering then all was good. Jesus said in the same sentence why he couldn’t be touched.
I think that’s the best explanation I’ve ever heard. Makes the most sense Thank you so much!