Will we know our loved ones when we get to heaven?

Q. Will we know our loved ones when we get to heaven?

Yes, I am convinced that we will. The Bible depicts heaven as a place where individual personalities are still distinct and recognizable. Jesus said, for example, that “many will come from the east and the west and take their places at the feast with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob in the kingdom of heaven.” A hymn that I like very much (“Ten Thousand Times Ten Thousand”) sums up this idea well in what I consider to be biblical language:

Then oh what glad reunions on Canaan’s happy shore,
What knitting severed friendships up, when partings be no more.
Then eyes will shine with gladness that brimmed with tears of late,
Orphans no more fatherless, nor widows desolate.

Do the apocryphal books mention reincarnation?

Q. Do any of the books from the Dead Sea Scrolls or any of the apocryphal books that were left out of the Holy Bible ever mention anything like reincarnation? Thanks.

Reincarnation is not mentioned in the apocrypha. This is also true of the books of the Old and New Testaments. (The Dead Sea Scrolls are not an additional source of works. They contain mostly Old Testament books and three apocryphal books.)

The idea of reincarnation does not figure in the Christian understanding of this life and the afterlife. Christians believe that God creates each soul individually and that each person enters his or her eternal destiny after leaving this life. Christians also believe that it is not necessary to go through a long cycle of reincarnations in order ultimately to enter heaven. When Jesus died on the cross as the Savior of the world, he brought forgiveness of sins and opened the way to heaven for everyone who trusts in him.

What will God do to people who cheat on their spouses?

Q. I have a friend who is having an affair. I am worried about her and what this will do to her and her relationship with God. She is a Christian and is a regular churchgoer. If she continues in this affair or if it someday results in a divorce, what will God do? She told me she is praying each day for forgiveness for being involved with this other man. I too am praying for her but I am scared she’ll go to hell for this. What does God do to people who are cheating?

Thank you for your question and for your concern for your friend.

The first thing I would say is that affairs don’t just happen. When married people go outside of their marriages for love, affection, and (frankly) excitement, that is a sign that those things are not present within the marriage in the way that they should be. This does not excuse the affair. But it does put it in a broader context that shows that the person is probably not deliberately doing something evil. The person is wanting good things (love, affection, excitement) but getting them in the wrong place. I would say that God understands this and takes it into account.

Nevertheless, I would also say that God will certainly do something in this case. The Bible says, “The Lord disciplines everyone he loves. He corrects everyone he accepts as his child.” Since your friend is a Christian, she is God’s child, and so God will correct her. God loves her too much to allow her to continue on this destructive course.

I expect that this will most likely happen through the affair being discovered. This may occur in a most unexpected way, hinting that God was responsible for the discovery. Then your friend will be held accountable for her actions and her choices. God will intend this for her good, so that she can repent, receive forgiveness, and be reconciled to her husband, and so that the two of them can find help and healing for their marriage.

However, knowing that this is likely to happen, I would certainly encourage your friend to end the affair now, before it is discovered and exposed. It will be much better for her and her marriage if she ends the affair on her own, confesses to her husband, seeks his forgiveness, and goes with him for counseling.

There’s one more thing I’d like to note as well. Sometimes people say, “I know this will be a sin, but I will ask God to forgive me for it, and he will forgive me.” That is true. But when we sin on that basis, even though we do receive forgiveness, we nevertheless irretrievably miss the opportunity to do the right thing on that occasion and bring glory to God and the hope of salvation to others through our obedience.

How much better it would be if your friend could say, “Yes, we’re going through a rough time in our marriage, but I made a vow before God and my family and friends to be faithful to this man, and I intend to keep that vow. We’re going to get the help we need, and we’re going to make this marriage work. In fact, we’re going to get the spark back. Just you wait and see. In the years to come, we’ll be more in love than ever!”

That is the kind of example we need Christian people to set. That is the kind of commitment they need to show, the kind of faith in what God is able to do. A testimony like that is incredibly powerful.

I recently heard a woman share how she and her husband had such a rough time in their marriage that even though they were both Christians, they got divorced. But they both continued to seek what God had for them, individually and together. Ultimately, after receiving much healing and experiencing genuine reconciliation, they got remarried to one another!

That is the kind of testimony we are able to give when we resolve that we are going to honor and obey God and seek to do what brings him glory. I believe that this is what God wants for your friend more than anything else, more than meting out any punishment for the affair. But as I said, the Lord also disciplines those he loves, so your friend should expect that God will act to end this affair if she does not.

Is it okay to believe in an “infinite consciousness”?

Q. I recently came across the concept of non-duality, specifically what Rupert Spira shares about an infinite consciousness as the concept of “I,” that beneath (or above?) our self, thoughts, and feelings, it’s this consciousness that exists. I have been gravitating towards this, but I am concerned that it could be a false teaching that would pull me away from God. Can you help shed some light on this, whether it’s okay for me to believe in this non-duality or the infinite consciousness? I only want to serve one master and that is our Lord.

I must admit that I am not familiar with Rupert Spira or his teachings. Your question is the first that I have heard of them. I’m not sure that I would do justice to them if I tried to track them down and look them over briefly in order to give an opinion in response to your question. So let me respond this way: Do you have peace in your heart about these teachings? Or do they make you, as someone who only wants to serve Jesus, uncomfortable? If they make you uncomfortable, then I would recommend not pursuing them. I am suggesting that you can rely on spiritual discernment—the Holy Spirit in your life leading you into all truth—to decide about the character these teachings. Someone else may have occasion to read and study them thoroughly and give an evaluation of them in the light of biblical truth. But I think for your own purposes at this point, if you have these concerns about them, they are probably better left alone.

Can a Christian drink alcoholic beverages?

Q. Is it permissible for a Christian to drink alcoholic beverages?

As I understand it, this would be a matter of individual conviction. In Romans 14, Paul discusses various things about which Christians of good will can have honest differences of conviction. At the beginning of the discussion, he mentions eating meat (probably in context meaning food offered to idols) and observing the Sabbath. The principles Paul teaches are that each person “should be fully convinced in their own mind” and that everyone should “make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.” That means specifically not doing anything that would lead fellow believers to violate their own consciences and fall into sin. At the end of the discussion, Paul says by way of summary, “It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything else that will cause your brother or sister to fall.” This suggests that he considers whether or not to drink wine also to be a matter of individual conviction, like Sabbath observance and eating meat.

The Bible does stress that drunkenness is a sin. So any Christian who feels the liberty to drink alcoholic beverages such as wine must do so in moderation. This is a second qualification on the freedom, in addition to the mandate not to cause a fellow believer to sin.

I should also note that in that same discussion in Romans, Paul says, “Let us stop passing judgment on one another.” On matters of individual conviction, we answer to God, not to other people’s opinions of what we should or should not do. Paul says this even more strongly in Colossians: “Therefore do not let anyone judge you by what you eat or drink, or with regard to a religious festival, a New Moon celebration or a Sabbath day. These are a shadow of the things that were to come; the reality, however, is found in Christ.” Ideally we can recognize that choices that rest on individual conviction are minor matters, and we can concentrate on major matters, which have to do with how we can all grow up into the image of Christ.

Review of Newsweek article “The Bible: So Misunderstood It’s a Sin”

Q. I am so grateful I came across your blog. I struggled with understanding about the Trinity, it just never seemed logical that three could be one. I finally started to see that as a possibility. But then I read an article in Newsweek magazine entitled “The Bible: So Misunderstood It’s a Sin.” I still totally know that God exists, the Son exists, and the Holy Spirit exists. But that article claims that the Scriptures might no longer be presented in a a totally correct dialect any longer. If, indeed, they have been changed, why have they not been taken back to the original Greek, to be totally accurate again?

I read the Newsweek article for the first time after I received your question. Let me share some thoughts about it.

I think one important thing to say first about the article is that it is completely one-sided. The sources for the article are all people who do not believe that the Bible is the word of God. Indeed, some of them, such as Bart Ehrman, are former believers who now actively oppose the faith. Imagine if someone wrote an article about a company and cited as sources only disgruntled former employees. Would we consider that fair and accurate reporting? There are very good responses to all of the claims that this article makes, and it would have been responsible journalism to seek out and quote believing biblical scholars who could have given those responses. That would at least have told both sides of the story, whatever the reporter believed personally. Instead, the tone and bias of the article make me feel that Newsweek was engaging in sensationalism. The fact that they published the article a couple of days before Christmas (on December 23, 2014) suggests that they were indeed trying to be provocative, which I find cynical and disappointing. So please take all of these things into account as you think about this article. Do not regard it as a fair and balanced treatment of its subject.

As for the claims that the article makes, while they are presented as if they were news that would stun believers, they come as absolutely no surprise to people who are well familiar with the Bible. For example, the author, Kurt Eichenwald, says at one point that preachers and politicians have not read the Bible; “Neither has the pope. Neither have I. And neither have you.” It turns out that he means that no one has read the originals of the biblical writings. And that is quite true. We no longer have the originals. All we have are copies. But we have many independent copies, and for the New Testament writings, they date back to close to the composition of the works themselves. The oldest ones differ in small ways, but that simply increases our confidence in them as independent witnesses.

Indeed, Bibles published by and for people who believe in the Scriptures as the word of God are careful to say where the copies differ. Let me use as an example one case that Eichenwald cites. The New International Version (NIV) includes a note before the story of the woman caught in adultery that explains, “The earliest manuscripts and many other ancient witnesses do not have John 7:53–8:11.” The English Standard Version (ESV) notes similarly, “The earliest manuscripts do not include 7:53–8:11.” And so forth. So believing biblical scholars are aware that John most likely did not write this section, and they are completely forthcoming about that.

I would say further that Eichenwald’s claim, “The event simply never happened,” is not justified by the absence of the account from early manuscripts of the gospel of John. Rather, as Bruce Metzger says, writing on behalf of the Editorial Committee of the United Bible Societies’ Greek New Testament, “The account has all the earmarks of historical veracity. It is obviously a piece of oral tradition which circulated in various parts of the Western church and which was subsequently incorporated into various manuscripts at various places.”

Eichenwald says further that the biblical manuscript tradition includes “changes made by literate scribes centuries after the manuscripts were written because of what they decided were flaws in the accounts they were recopying.” He cites this example:

An early version of Luke 3:16 in the New Testament said, “John answered, saying to all of them.…” The problem was that no one had asked John anything, so a fifth century scribe fixed that by changing the words to “John, knowing what they were thinking, said.…” Today, most modern English Bibles have returned to the correct, yet confusing, “John answered.” Others, such as the New Life Version Bible, use other words that paper over the inconsistency.

Let me say in response first that this is not an inconsistency. This is simply a Hebrew idiom—”he answered and said”—that Luke is employing, even though he is writing in Greek. This Hebrew idiom can indicate how someone responded to a situation, not just to a question that someone asked. But the fifth-century scribe apparently no longer understood that idiom and felt that he needed to account for the term “answered” somehow. So is this evidence that errors have crept into the Bible steadily over the centuries? No, this is actually a demonstration of the self-correcting process of manuscript transmission. As Eichenwald himself acknowledges, “Most modern English Bibles have returned to the correct” reading. The reading is only “confusing” (as he also calls it) if one does not understand the Hebrew idiom. Now since it is the case that readers may not understand that idiom today, I think English Bibles serve their readers well if they convey its meaning in other words. The reading in the New Life Version (NLV), “John said to all of them,” does not “paper over” an “inconsistency.” It conveys the meaning in natural English where a Hebrew idiom might be misunderstood.

As for the Trinity itself, Eichenwald writes, “So where does the clear declaration of God and Jesus as part of a triumvirate appear in the Greek manuscripts? Nowhere.” But this ta-da statement is only true on one level: The actual word “Trinity” does not appear in the Bible. This, too, is something that people who believe in the Trinity and in the Bible as the word of God freely acknowledge. If you study systematic theology in seminary, as I did, when you get to subject of the Trinity, that’s the first thing you are told. But this does not mean that the concept of the Trinity is not clearly taught in the Bible. For example, Jesus himself told his disciples, as he was giving them his final instructions before ascending to heaven, “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.” In his first epistle, the apostle Peter addressed his readers as people who had been “chosen according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through the sanctifying work of the Spirit, to be obedient to Jesus Christ.” The apostle Paul ended his second epistle to the Corinthians with this benediction: “May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.” And so forth. So the absence in Scripture of a word that was later adopted as a name for a doctrine does not mean the absence of that doctrine itself.

As for 1 John 5:7, “For there are three that testify in heaven: the Father, the Word, and the Holy Spirit, and these three are one,” it is true that these words do not appear in any early Greek manuscripts. They appear to be a later addition. But once again, people who believe in the Bible as the word of God freely acknowledge this. The NIV, for example, puts those words in a footnote and explains that they are “not found in any Greek manuscript before the fourteenth century.” So this is further evidence of the self-correcting nature of the manuscript tradition and the use of it in modern Bibles. Moreover, belief in the Trinity does not depend on this one verse. As I have already shown, that doctrine is well expressed in other New Testament writings.

I hope that these observations will be reassuring to you. I am sorry that you encountered a biased, sensationalist article just as you had begun to understand the doctrine of the Trinity. I hope you will appreciate that that doctrine has a sound biblical and theological basis. It remains a paradox, a mystery, but as I have said in other posts on this blog, it nevertheless tells us essential and beautiful things about God.

In what way do “the heavens declare the glory of God”?

Q. There are two verses in the Bible that I’ve often seen used as proof texts to argue that science, done properly, will ultimately be compatible with any descriptions of nature (including creation) that are found in the Bible.

Psalm 19:1 – The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands.
Romans 1:20 – For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made.

In your view, what is the best interpretation of these verses? For example, in what ways do the heavens declare the glory of God and how have God’s invisible attributes been “clearly seen… from what has been made”? Should these verses be understood to be making broad claims about the existence of God from the existence of anything rather than nothing? Are they making other esoteric arguments from aesthetics and beauty? Would the biblical authors even have had these kinds of philosophical/apologetics-type arguments in mind, or does that import modern concepts into the text?

Psalm 19 does not say, “The heavens declare the existence of God.” It says, “The heavens declare the glory of God.” The psalm considers the existence of God a given, and it addresses people who also consider that a given. It is not speaking to the question of whether there is a God; it is speaking to the question of what God is like.

The psalm does not say specifically in what the “glory” of God consists that the heavens “declare.” However, we may infer something about this from the use of the sun as a specific instance of the general principle. The psalm seems to be saying that the glory of God is seen in the way that a single celestial object can make a circuit of the heavens and light up everything beneath. This seems to suggest the idea that the creation is orderly, harmonious, even beautiful, and in that way it exhibits the character of the God who made it.

The psalm pairs the statement “the heavens declare the glory of God” with the statement “the law of the Lord is perfect.” Those are the opening lines of its two halves. It has been said well that this psalm speaks of the “two books” of God, nature and Scripture. I think it is saying that we get some idea of God’s character from nature, and if we want to appreciate that character more fully and emulate it (among other things, in order to fit harmoniously into creation), we can learn about it in Scripture.

A similar observation might be made about the passage in Romans. Paul does not say that God’s existence is clearly seen from what has been made. He says that God’s qualities are seen that way.

As for arguments for the existence of God based on the idea that the universe must have come from something rather than from nothing, the Bible says, in Hebrews 11:3, “By faith we understand that the universe was created by the word of God, so that the visible came into existence from the invisible.” This is something from something, the visible from the invisible, but I think the important thing is that the Bible says we understand this by faith. It is not saying that we should expect that rationalistic, scientific endeavor will confirm the existence of God as it explores the creation.

Indeed, on its own terms, science will never confirm the existence of God. Science, by definition, limits itself to what is observable and measurable. So science will never be in a position to prove or even assert that there is or is not a God. Any purported science that claims to speak to that question has moved into metaphysics.

Interestingly, however, science, also by definition, posits an orderly universe. For example, it posits that if a series of experiments demonstrates something in one place and time, that will hold true in all places and all times. If you hold a tennis ball out at shoulder height and release it 100 times, and it falls to the ground 100 times, you have a phenomenon to explain. The best explanation we know of that right now has to do with gravity. But no one is concerned that the ball would have risen rather than fallen if the experiment has been done for a 101st time.

I heard an excellent talk once that said that science cannot prove that the universe is orderly, and it certainly is not in a position to explain why the universe is orderly, assuming that it is, but that assumption seems to hold true, and it has produced useful results for many centuries, and so science keeps working with it. That’s as much as science can say. This does agree with the biblical description of a universe that is orderly and harmonious. But the idea that the universe is that way because it reflects the character of the God who made it is something that we know by faith. That, I would say, is what the Bible teaches on the subject.

What should a Christian do who is struggling with the doctrine of the Trinity? 

Q. What should a Christian do if he is currently struggling with understanding the doctrine of the Trinity? What should he do if he he is having a hard time viewing God as being one God who is three persons at the same time (i.e. that it seems hard to differentiate the doctrine of the Trinity from the idea of there being three Gods)? Should he just accept the doctrine of the Trinity on faith and accept on faith that the doctrine of the Trinity is monotheistic (e.g. “This is what the Bible teaches, and I know that the Bible is true, even though I don’t really understand the doctrine very well”)?

I think that one thing a Christian can do who is struggling with the doctrine of the Trinity is to recognize that the Christian faith involves many things that are paradoxes. A paradox consists of two things that seem as if they both cannot be true at the same time, but which are actually both true.

One paradox of the Christian faith is that God is three, but also one. But there are also other paradoxes. The kingdom of God is already here, but it is not here yet. Jesus on earth was both fully human and fully divine. God is completely sovereign, and yet human beings are morally accountable. And so forth.

The way to come to terms with a paradox that the Bible teaches is not to choose one side over the other, but to recognize that the truths of God surpass the capabilities of our human minds. We can trust what God has revealed to us in his word even if our minds are not yet able to grasp how two things that his word affirms can both be true at the same time. It may be helpful to think of the analogy of a child not understanding, for example, why his parents, who supposedly love him, are punishing him. The child is not yet able to understand that discipline is an expression of love. The child only feels hurt and humiliated, and people who love you are not supposed to hurt and humiliate you. But hopefully the child will appreciate, relatively young in life, that good parents correct and discipline a child for his own good, and that it is actually much less loving not to discipline a child.

Perhaps another way to come to terms with the doctrine of the Trinity is to work to understand it in light of what I think is the best analogy we have available here on earth. We don’t know any other beings who are both three and one, but we can consider that the spouses in a healthy marriage are two who have become one. There is no loss of individuality; rather, individuality is actually enhanced. But something beyond the individuals has also come into being, and yet it consists of those individuals: a married couple. That couple functions as a being of its own in many ways. For example, while the spouses have each other’s company, “sometimes the couple gets lonely,” as my late wife used to say, and the couple needs the company of another couple or of other couples.

Personally I also find it helpful to appreciate the implications of the doctrine of the Trinity. It means that at the core of God’s being is relationship, community, cooperation, and interdependence. Humans are created in God’s image, and so when we cultivate and experience these things as true worshipers of God, we are sharing in the essence of God. That is something that the doctrine of the Trinity has for us even though we are not able to grasp it fully with our minds. So I hope you will not see that doctrine as a burden, something you have to believe even though it is impossible for your mind to understand. That would be a burden indeed. Rather, see it as a doctrine that reveals something about the nature of God, by which I mean not his threeness and oneness, but his essential relationalness.

Well, my spell-checker is having trouble with the words in that last sentence! That shows how hard it is to put the doctrine of the Trinity into words. But that doesn’t mean that we can’t put it into practice.

Should we identify the modern state of Israel with the Israel of the Bible?

Q. I’ve been having a conversation with my daughter since this conflict between Israel and Hamas began. She says that the state of Israel and the land of Israel are not the same. She believes that is a misconception people have, and that we should not just blindly support Israel in the current war, because things are different now than when the Bible was written. I am unable to decipher a difference. Can you help me understand?

I agree that we should not equate the modern state of Israel with the Israel of the Bible. As I wrote in my previous post, the theocratic Israelite kingdom was an element of the previous phase of God’s unfolding redemptive plan. In our day, the people of God are a multinational community of believers in Jesus scattered throughout the world. God’s plan is to bring people from every nation into that community. The modern state of Israel is now one of those nations. So we should not give it an automatic preference in world affairs.

The current war between Israel and Hamas is having tragic consequences for thousands of people on both sides. The conflict between Israelis and Palestinians goes back generations, and it is difficult to see how it can be resolved when both sides wish for the destruction of the other. But I believe that Christians should advocate for the principles of human rights, the rule of law, and representative government (or, failing that, at least government whose primary concern is for the welfare of the people, not its own power). We should advocate for the free flow of goods and services and for the access of all people to the basic necessities of life. We should advocate for non-violent solutions to conflicts between people. I believe that biblical principles would lead us to do all those things, and they would lead us to do that without, as I said, automatically preferring one party over another.

Thank you for your question and for your sincere concern about this conflict. Let us pray for an end to it, for mercy on all those affected, and for a lasting solution to the issues in that region. And to the extent that we are able to do things in addition to prayer towards the ends I have described, let us do them.

Do Christians just pick and choose what they want to follow in the Bible?

Q. How should we answer a non-Christian who asks, “Why don’t Christians follow the Old Testament death penalty laws such as Deuteronomy 13:6-10 and Deuteronomy 17:2-5?” Are Christians just picking and choosing what they want to follow in the Bible? How would you explain the reason why Christians don’t follow these laws and why this is not Christians being inconsistent or just picking and choosing what to follow in the Bible?

If Christians actually are just picking and choosing from the Bible, then the criticism that you describe is deserved. That is, if Christians are simply lifting the statements they agree with off the pages of Scripture without considering their original meaning or context, but they are ignoring statements that they don’t agree with, then that certainly is arbitrary and inconsistent.

However, I actually hear a more serious charge in the criticism you describe. The claim seems to be that Christians can only pick and choose; that there is no reliable way to determine what Scriptural statements apply to us today, and how they apply, and so an appeal to the Bible can only be arbitrary and the Bible is not a reliable source of moral guidance.

That is simply not true. There is a process by which we can understand the biblical writings in their original contexts and then determine how we should apply them to ourselves today. That process is called “hermeneutics.” It is complex, and it must be followed carefully and humbly, always with an openness to understanding better and learning more, but it is objective and not arbitrary.

The basic idea is that all of the biblical writings address specific situations in the community of believers in specific times and in specific places. The task is to see how these “occasional writings” (as we may call them) also have a universal applicability, since God inspired them to bring his word to all people everywhere. To determine this, we must take into account the differences in culture, and even more so the different stages in the unfolding of God’s plan of redemption. Let me use the passages you cite as an example.

Deuteronomy 13:6-10 says that if a close friend or family member of an Israelite urges him or her to join in the worship other gods, that Israelite must turn that friend or relative in to the community authorities. The community must stone the offender to death, and the Israelite who was approached about worshiping other gods must throw the first stone. This is in the Bible, so why don’t Christians today say that we should kill anyone who suggests we follow a different religion?

We need to recognize that God’s redemptive plan moves from universal (dealing with all nations) to particular (dealing with one nation) to universal again. At the time when Deuteronomy was written, it was particular. The nation of Israel was a theocracy whose purpose was to model the life-giving way of life that came from worshiping Yahweh. In some cases, offenders against that purpose were executed, not to punish them for committing a specific crime, but in order to remove them from the community and thus restore its integrity as one in which Yahweh was worshiped exclusively and in the way he had specified. Clearly these considerations do not apply to us today, when the people of God are a multinational community scattered throughout the world. But we may still derive a moral lesson from this passage: “If your very own brother, or your son or daughter, or the wife you love, or your closest friend secretly entices you, saying, ‘Let us go and worship other gods,’ … do not yield to them or listen to them.” The moral lesson is that we must put our loyalty to God before our loyalty to any friend or family member, no matter how close.

The case is the same with Deuteronomy 17:2-5, which says similarly that the community must stone to death anyone who, it can be proved, has worshiped other gods or the sun, moon, or stars. Christians today do not advocate for the death penalty for followers of other religions, and that is the proper way to interpret this text for our own context. Once again the purpose of the death penalty is to remove the person from the community, rather than to punish them for committing a specific crime. We can derive from this passage an emphasis on being faithful to God’s covenant with us and not giving anyone or anything else the worship that God deserves.